Okay so guys I’m back. Got something to talk about or something like that. Well it’s about this called fair (not skin tone). Something like fair and unfair.
Many people think that their life is unfair, they keep saying it, think about it all the time 24/7. When we look into the reason why they arrived at such a conclusion we see (now do we?) it just so happens that either
(1) something didn’t turn out how they expected it to be, or
(2) Something bad happened.
Maybe we want to blame someone or something for all the things that’s happening? Well what can we say (human nature??) Like the times when we didn’t get what we wanted. The truth is we may not always get what we want -everything happens for a reason- (I think I read a story with that title) maybe we are better off without getting what we want. And we end up saying something like:
“LIFE IS SO UNFAIR”. (Mwahahhaha)
Now is it really unfair? I mean after all we are given choices in everything we do, our choices are what leads us to happy or unhappy situations in the first place (we tend to forget that). So always love the choice you make, don’t regret it and move on, Cox no good will come from wasting your time regretting stuff. Doesn’t mean it’s easy to forget things (I mean the choices we make) which made a hard impact in our life’s,(okay so there are times where you don’t know what to choose-like buying that thing or this? is it much better or that?-those are the times to ask for help from someone) so we are solely responsible for how things turn out. So what if you had made a wrong choice, learn from your mistakes and move on. (Right) and I saw from somewhere (okay so I can’t remember each and every place I read or heard something from!!) something like….ummm
“When one door closes another opens”
Sometimes we worry too much about the closed door that we forget about the newly opened door until that door closes.
(Okay so that may not be exactly how it really was. sorry heh heh).And lastly…
How many times have we stopped for a moment and thought about how our life is? How good our life was and still is? You know the good things in life (Praise God for it.) I mean think about it- there are people who are living in worse situations than us .I for one believe that we won’t face any problems that we can’t solve. (Getting help from friends and family is a good idea)
So maybe for once we could stop saying life is so unfair and love the choices we made along the way till where we are today, and learn from the bad choices we made.
WHY WASTE TIME REGRETTING WHEN YOU COULD BE HAPPY.
That’s all folks….PHeewwwww…
Many people think that their life is unfair, they keep saying it, think about it all the time 24/7. When we look into the reason why they arrived at such a conclusion we see (now do we?) it just so happens that either
(1) something didn’t turn out how they expected it to be, or
(2) Something bad happened.
Maybe we want to blame someone or something for all the things that’s happening? Well what can we say (human nature??) Like the times when we didn’t get what we wanted. The truth is we may not always get what we want -everything happens for a reason- (I think I read a story with that title) maybe we are better off without getting what we want. And we end up saying something like:
“LIFE IS SO UNFAIR”. (Mwahahhaha)
Now is it really unfair? I mean after all we are given choices in everything we do, our choices are what leads us to happy or unhappy situations in the first place (we tend to forget that). So always love the choice you make, don’t regret it and move on, Cox no good will come from wasting your time regretting stuff. Doesn’t mean it’s easy to forget things (I mean the choices we make) which made a hard impact in our life’s,(okay so there are times where you don’t know what to choose-like buying that thing or this? is it much better or that?-those are the times to ask for help from someone) so we are solely responsible for how things turn out. So what if you had made a wrong choice, learn from your mistakes and move on. (Right) and I saw from somewhere (okay so I can’t remember each and every place I read or heard something from!!) something like….ummm
“When one door closes another opens”
Sometimes we worry too much about the closed door that we forget about the newly opened door until that door closes.
(Okay so that may not be exactly how it really was. sorry heh heh).And lastly…
How many times have we stopped for a moment and thought about how our life is? How good our life was and still is? You know the good things in life (Praise God for it.) I mean think about it- there are people who are living in worse situations than us .I for one believe that we won’t face any problems that we can’t solve. (Getting help from friends and family is a good idea)
So maybe for once we could stop saying life is so unfair and love the choices we made along the way till where we are today, and learn from the bad choices we made.
WHY WASTE TIME REGRETTING WHEN YOU COULD BE HAPPY.
That’s all folks….PHeewwwww…
Image: made in photoshop (yeah right its crappy,but i kinda like it,thanx anyways)
10 comments:
True true till the end. After all, those are the choices we made. If it turned wrong, we should try learn from that and remember to NOT repeat the same mistake again.
And the photo... I like it. Looks like a watercolour painting to me. It would've been nicer without the "this way" "that way" stuff written. Or else you could've made it a bit blurry or something. *shrug* I dunno much yet. Just a novice :P
well what u say is true..
but most of the people just don't have anything else in mind other than the shitty things that has happened to them... so how could they stop by to think about the good stuff in their life.....
Nice image by the way... but i guess ur just not good with CLOUDS
True..
i try not to regret the bad choices i make. just accept those and learn from it.. and move on.
yeah ... very true..
we cud just forget abt the bad experiences and we cud get goin.. tats the way life shud be dho?... i guess so.. hehe..
and dat photo is nice i wud say... hehe
keep posting!! :D
yeah so true..lifes too short for regrets and its what we make of it..we always have a choice..btw..cool pic
thanx everyone
spark of silence:well the image was done in photoshop(it was just kinda drawn in a hurry...so maybe next time, u wud see a better pic)
areef: you are right buddy(i was never good with clouds) but i am trying now, heh heh
autodynamix: well that's good the way you are thinking, unlike some of the guys who dont think that way
forgiven: good thinking, and thanx
paradox: heh heh yeah dho, i mean before you know it you would be too old( ummm....is my hair grey.lol)
forsaken: grey hair really doesn't reflect the age of a person. some people may have grey hair due to genetic reasons too while they are in their teens! [like me] :$
I have three things I live by, my three comrades, a lot of faith a bit of hope and no regrets..its somhting I blv in firmly.. its hard sometimes but it never fails..
And for the unfair bit no one ever said life had to be easy or 'fair' that is our defintion of fair right.. so i alwya say buck and face it..things will get better eventually... everything good or bad is momentory.. its all transitory..
Thought provoking post :)
in life... the best choice u cud make is to keep everything to moderation..u make blunders in choices when expectation gets too high.. my word of advice..
spark of silence:...(sorry about that...i know but it was just a....okay i am not good with this.)
shanu: its good that you believe in what you believe in, and thanx
schmartypants: thanx for your words of advice(heh heh...i to believe its that way)
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