PLACE OF SOLITUDE

PLACE OF SOLITUDE

Closing my eyes
I feel the cool wind
Caressing my face
Soothing my soul
The silence broken
By the sound of
Waves coming
Onto the
Moonlit beach
Slowly I move
As if in a trance
Reaching my destination
I sit down
And gaze off
Into the horizon
Lost in thought
I stay there
Till I open my eyes
To reality....

Image: made in Adobe Photoshop.

THIS WAY OR THAT WAY

Okay so guys I’m back. Got something to talk about or something like that. Well it’s about this called fair (not skin tone). Something like fair and unfair.

Many people think that their life is unfair, they keep saying it, think about it all the time 24/7. When we look into the reason why they arrived at such a conclusion we see (now do we?) it just so happens that either

(1) something didn’t turn out how they expected it to be, or
(2) Something bad happened.

Maybe we want to blame someone or something for all the things that’s happening? Well what can we say (human nature??) Like the times when we didn’t get what we wanted. The truth is we may not always get what we want -everything happens for a reason- (I think I read a story with that title) maybe we are better off without getting what we want. And we end up saying something like:

“LIFE IS SO UNFAIR”. (Mwahahhaha)

Now is it really unfair? I mean after all we are given choices in everything we do, our choices are what leads us to happy or unhappy situations in the first place (we tend to forget that). So always love the choice you make, don’t regret it and move on, Cox no good will come from wasting your time regretting stuff. Doesn’t mean it’s easy to forget things (I mean the choices we make) which made a hard impact in our life’s,(okay so there are times where you don’t know what to choose-like buying that thing or this? is it much better or that?-those are the times to ask for help from someone) so we are solely responsible for how things turn out. So what if you had made a wrong choice, learn from your mistakes and move on. (Right) and I saw from somewhere (okay so I can’t remember each and every place I read or heard something from!!) something like….ummm

“When one door closes another opens”

Sometimes we worry too much about the closed door that we forget about the newly opened door until that door closes.
(Okay so that may not be exactly how it really was. sorry heh heh).And lastly…

How many times have we stopped for a moment and thought about how our life is? How good our life was and still is? You know the good things in life (Praise God for it.) I mean think about it- there are people who are living in worse situations than us .I for one believe that we won’t face any problems that we can’t solve. (Getting help from friends and family is a good idea)

So maybe for once we could stop saying life is so unfair and love the choices we made along the way till where we are today, and learn from the bad choices we made.

WHY WASTE TIME REGRETTING WHEN YOU COULD BE HAPPY.
That’s all folks….PHeewwwww…

Image: made in photoshop (yeah right its crappy,but i kinda like it,thanx anyways)

PERFECT!!!!! WHATEVER THAT IS!!

Here I am again and again with more of my ravings (duhh….why am I doing this again), duh well this time I wanna tell you about something...(Well duh I know that…thanx-shut up will ya…I am trying to write something here..) sorry about that…now where was I…ummm…yeah right ..Something had been bothering me for quite some time and I just can’t make up my mind (umm…whatever that’s supposed to mean…) well it’s about this thing called PERFECT (hmmm…..)Here’s what I think…and before that the definition of

Perfect: accurate, flawless.

Well so nobody is perfect in the sense that we are all with flaws. Okay some people may have no physical flaws (depends on the way how see it), they may have flaws elsewhere like for in their personalities. Others who have a perfect personality (once again depends on how you see it) may have physical flaws. My point is everyone has flaws (Damn right) but some of us don’t think about it that way (some of us really think they are perfect-the truth is they are just proving that they are not) even I have flaws, I admit it (though I’m really trying to change-not trying to be perfect though-just wanna be someone who could be accepted by people).

The way I see it there’s only one way that people would see you as perfect that is when they(people) accept the fact that you have these flaws and accept them (your flaws). Friends and family and others around you accept you even though you have these flaws, because they love the person they see and they see someone good, respectable, caring and not into bad stuff. And when you are in love with someone you would see them as perfect (you can’t see all those flaws-sometimes you end up defending that person from others who point out their flaws, and you hate those who do point them out, no wonder they say that love is blind.) all that changes when its someone you hate, you just can’t see any good in the person Cox you wouldn’t just let your mind think anything good about that person, even though that person is indeed really good in some ways( when you break up with your lover you would begin to see the flaws that your friends pointed out). Something perfect for one person may not be perfect to another Cox it’s really just the way how you look at it. So all in all just wanna say that guys and gals and everyone don’t say you’re perfect (maybe PERFECT with some flaws..heh heh..)

Well this is what I think…it may differ from what others think…Cox I know I am not PERFECT.(so what I say may not be perfect lol….) and before I go just wanna point out a very good quote which is there on your right corner (top right corner on my blog on top of about me sidebar)

Photography: by me

Image: by me

Arrrrrgghhhh!!

From deep within
Comes this urge
To let it all out
Let you know
All the things which
Have been buried deep within
An anguished soul
For its been
Tortured and taunted
From time and time again
Beaten and broken
Till nothingness
But no matter
How much tears
Has been wept
And sacrifice
Been made
It’s all going to
Be in vain
Cox all these
Have been
Falling on
Deaf ears

Image-(Made by me using Adobe photo shop CS2)
PS.It may be not good but I'm content with it,Thanx

WHY I HAVENT POSTED

Writer's block is a phenomenon involving temporary loss of ability to continue writing, usually due to lack of inspiration or creativity(Hmmm....). Writer's block can be closely related to depression(true true) and anxiety, two disorders that reflect environmentally-caused or spontaneous changes in the brain's frontal lobe. This is in contrast to hypergraphia(whatever that is), more closely linked to mania, in which the changes occur primarily in the temporal lobe. These processes, and their implications for treatment, are described in neurologist Alice Flaherty's book The Midnight Disease. However, another interpretation of writer's block, sometimes confused with scant output, is given in the book Silences, by Tillie Olsen, who argues that historically many women and working-class writers have been unable to devote themselves to, or concentrate on, their writing because their social and economic circumstances prevent them from doing so. It is widely thought that writer's block is part of a natural ebb and flow in the creative process. Author Justina Headley explains in keynote speeches that for her it comes from losing touch with the characters about whom she is writing; and that by discovering who they are again, the block disintegrates.

Various strategies for overcoming writer's block

Some authorities[citation needed] have recommended the following to those suffering from writer's block: * Setting a time and write whatever comes to mind, without stopping, for that time.
* Using writers' exercises such as "chunking". They use many websites that contain numerous creative writing exercises. Writers read an exercise, and do it.
* Taking a break, meditating, or doing relaxation exercises to relieve any pressure on oneself and on the writing. * Doing something out of the ordinary. If writer's block comes from a lack of new ideas, attempts to spark creativity by going somewhere new or doing something different can be useful.
* Returning to the writing after a lapse of a day or two. * Write a basic plot outline of the story, if having problems keeping the story on the rails.
* Write or type out a complete short story by one's favorite author. By the end of ten to twenty pages, the mind is properly engaged to again be creative.
* Brainstorming at the beginning of the writing can help the writer by relating every point to another.
* Reading, watching movies or plays, or similar activities that might bring inspiration. * If suffering from writer's block, write about an experience of your own or of a person you know. It's not the best strategy, but it will work if all else fails.

I may not be a famous writer but i sure am having this writer's block or maybe I'm TOO BUSY.( maybe someday you guys would see a book written by me..the title may sound something like- How to become a famous writer...lol)..anyways I'll be back with some stuff...Thats all folks!!!!

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Information about writers block-http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Writer's_block
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